Three Steps To Better Communication

Three Steps To Better Communication

“Be the person your dog thinks you are.” Despite our best efforts to be that person, have you ever found you have some days where you’re just a little less than that shining star? (Even if you don’t have a dog!)

I was prompted to write this post by ‘conversations’ I’ve been witnessing on social media and by what we’re seeing, reading and hearing on the news and in every day life.

I’ve seen times where responses to simple questions or statements come across as aggressive and mean-spirited. Or perhaps that wasn’t the original intention but someone else sees it that way. And then sometimes despite the best efforts of the original poster to make amends and clarify what they’ve said, the responses continue in the same vein.

I’m going to guess that if you read any information sources or social media, this type of communication is not unusual and you’ve been witness to it too.

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Leaving Safe For The Unknown

Leaving Safe For The Unknown

There’s a place where you sit that feels very good. It’s comfortable, safe and you feel secure when you’re there. You can do what you like when you’re sitting in that chair and no matter what someone says, it’s easy to stay comfortably enthroned on it. It’s your ‘comfy chair’ and it secures your place in the world.

I’ve got my favourite chairs and sitting spots in our home. There’s the chair in the room where I teach that I sit in every morning to meditate. There’s another in the living room - my hubby in his chair on one side of a table and me on the other. Just like the lovely couple in the movie Up. It’s nice and it feels good.

But metaphorically speaking, sitting in that ‘comfy chair’ in your life - that’s not so good.

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Do We Need To Define Meditation?

Do We Need To Define Meditation?

So... here is a question for you.....why is it that people need to put things into a category?

Does it matter? I suppose it might depending on what it’s referring to.

If you’ve decided that it’s time to get a dog, it’s very helpful to know what ‘category’ it would fit into. Is it a large, medium or small breed?

But I think that oftentimes it doesn’t. 

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Lessons At Disney & Meditating With Pirates

Lessons At Disney & Meditating With Pirates

We went on a family trip to Disney World Florida in January. Our daughter is a big Disney fan, so it's often our destination and is a fascinating place to simply watch and learn - from both a personal and business perspective.

if we take the time to observe, listen and be aware, we come to realize that the lessons aren't always found in expected places.

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